Coffee Chat in Shanghai — fifteen ecommerce builders around a U-shaped table, sharing real stories.
Suhe Bay (苏河湾), Shanghai — 2025. One of many afternoons in China I wished Saigon also had.

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4S Ecom Coffee Chat

Small-table 4S Ecom Coffee Chats in Saigon, Shenzhen, Singapore — Shopify operators, agencies, DTC founders. Real talk on CRO, cross-border, brand.

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Saigon

Home base. Roughly monthly when I'm in town. Coffee shops in District 1 or Thảo Điền — small, quiet enough to hear each other.

Shenzhen 深圳

2–3 times a year, between partner trips. Mostly cross-border sellers, supply-chain operators, app makers.

Singapore

2–3 times a year, around investor and ecosystem visits. Founders, agencies, regional Shopify Plus operators.

Upcoming sessions

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Three months in China — and Saigon deserves this energy

In 2025 I spent three months in China studying Mandarin — two months in Beijing, one in Shanghai. Outside of class, I went to a lot of coffee chats — AI rooms, founder rooms, ecommerce, cross-border, brand. And everywhere, from a small café in Sanlitun (三里屯) to a round table in Suhe Bay (苏河湾), I met the same thing: a real spirit of sharing, nothing being sold, people there because they want to grow together.

In Shanghai I met Ben — Uyghur, and a very successful seller in the city’s ecommerce scene. He doesn’t need to sell anything more, but he still runs Saturday-afternoon coffee gatherings — half because they keep him sharp on the market, half because he wants to help the people coming up behind him. Fifteen people, one host, a U-shaped table, minimal slides. Each person introduced themselves in two sentences. The host opened one question. Three hours later I walked out with more practical insight than a week of reading LinkedIn would have given me.

Nobody was performing. Nobody was selling. Everyone had something to share because everyone was actually doing the work. The most useful comments came from the quietest people in the room.

I loved that energy — sitting down at a café table where everyone is there for the same reason, nobody playing a role. So I want Saigon to have rooms like that too, and to keep them running across Shenzhen and Singapore when I travel — every two to three weeks, weekends, fifteen to twenty people, you pay for your own coffee. That’s it.

The format

  • No speakers, no slides, no selling.
  • Each person introduces themselves briefly: what you’re working on, what you’re curious about.
  • Host opens one or two topics — the room takes it from there.
  • If you don’t know much, just come and listen. If you know something, share it.
  • Everyone pays for their own coffee. That’s the whole business model.

Think of it as a small café afternoon, talking shop, opening up perspectives, meeting people who actually do interesting things.

What we usually talk about

The room sets the agenda, but these come up almost every time:

  • Cross-border commerce — selling into US/EU from VN/CN, sourcing, logistics, payment rails.
  • Landing pages and CRO — what’s actually moving the conversion needle in 2026.
  • Paid acquisition — Meta, TikTok, Google. What’s working, what’s burning cash.
  • Content and advertorials — the format that’s quietly doing 3x of landing pages.
  • Brand building — the long game, especially for DTC consumables.
  • Product and supply — sourcing, R&D, working with factories, white-label vs own-label.

When an afternoon goes deeper

Sometimes a topic earns its own afternoon. When the room asks for depth, we’ll often anchor around one of these — half is a useful AI workflow, half is a real CRO/ecom problem we work through together.

#TopicThe AI angleThe ecom/CRO angle
1Audit any page in 5 minutes with ClaudeWeb → screenshot/HTML → structured audit prompt10-point landing page CRO scoring, drawn from 2,620 advertorials
2Build a pattern-based prompt libraryPattern-based vs generic prompting; reusable prompt architecture5 archetype-aware advertorial prompts
3Competitor research in 1 hour with Claude ProjectsClaude Project setup, web research, synthesis promptsDTC brand benchmark — positioning, creatives, pricing
4Daily email triage with Claude — 30 minutes backProject setup, triage rules, draft templatesEcom customer email patterns (refund, complaint, partnership)
5Image analysis with Claude VisionMulti-modal workflows, batch image analysisProduct photo audit, ad creative critique against winning patterns
6A daily AI operating systemClaude + Notion + Calendar integrationA founder’s day at GemCommerce, broken down
7Document analysis at scale — PDFs, reports, contractsPDF → structured insights pipelineCompete intel from 10-K filings, agency contract review
8Building internal tools with Claude ArtifactsCode-as-tool, deployable mini-appsMini CRO calculator, A/B sample-size tool
9AI-powered user research — interview to insightTranscript → themes → synthesis → recommendationCustomer call → CRO insight → A/B test hypothesis
10Content production pipeline — idea to publishedMulti-platform content automationThe advertorial pipeline running inside GemStory
11Code review and debug with Claude CodeEngineering workflow with an AI pairBuilding GemStory itself — behind the scenes
12AI for decision-making — when to trust, when to doubtCognitive workflow + decision frameworkFounder calls: build vs buy, hire vs agent, ship vs test

Same shape every time: a usable AI workflow on top, a real ecom/CRO problem underneath. You leave with one prompt template and one way to think about your store.

Who tends to come

  • Shopify operators of any stage — first store or eighth.
  • DTC founders building brand-led businesses.
  • Agency owners and freelancers running campaigns for brands.
  • App and tooling builders in the Shopify ecosystem.
  • Anyone serious about ecommerce — newcomers welcome, just bring questions.

How to join

The room is capped at 15–20 people per session, first-come basis through a small WhatsApp group I run.

If you want in:

Chat on WhatsApp

Send me a short note — what you’re working on, which city you’re in, and you’re in.

I’ll add you to the relevant city group and ping when the next afternoon is set. No application form, no screening. Just show up, introduce yourself, contribute when you’ve got something, listen when you don’t.

See you over coffee.

Coffee Chat — Register

Tell me where you are and how to reach you. I’ll add you to the city group when the next one is scheduled.

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How it actually looks

No stage, no microphones. A round table, fifteen people who actually do the work, three hours of honest questions. The afternoon I went in Shanghai ended with more usable insight than a week of LinkedIn reading.

Wide shot of a Coffee Chat in Shanghai — fifteen people seated around a U-shape, host facilitating
Fifteen people around a U-shape. Host opens one topic. The room takes it from there.
Close-up of attendees listening at the Shanghai Coffee Chat
Everyone listens like they're going to learn something. Most of the time, they do.
Speaker with a simple visual on screen at the Shanghai Coffee Chat
A single visual on the screen — minimal aid. The conversation does the work.